Friendship....some thing which defines half of my life. I was always an amiable person...made friends with ease but there were two kinds of friends. One, the everyone on the street kind of friends and the other were friends in the truest sense of the word. The people for whom I could do anything....listen anything...forgive innumerable times....cry with them...laugh incessantly with them. My friends are my life, they make me the person I am. I generally don't take tension about people or gossips or what someone is saying related to me. The only people who have the capability to hurt me or rather affect me in any way would be my friends.
Once some one falls under the category of friends, he/she has no strings attached relationship with me. This means that he/she will have access to all whats happening in my life and about my past. I don't believe in hiding stuff from my friends.Probably this is the reason that I accept the same from them. There should be a black and a white, no grey areas in that realm of life. If some one is in a good mood u should be in a position to be happy with them and celebrate. If some one is sad, u shud have a reason so that you can make them happy again.
One thing more, if you give a friend an access to your life and have an open relationship with him/her, as in both of you can tell each other about anything and everything in life, then you expect this to be mutual. You don't expect to tell him everything which is known to a select few in life, answer every question they ask you and then when you have queries, you are left outside the talks in pretense of decency.The decency is either there or not there. You can't expect to say the half bit and hide the other half bit.
Somethings in the above are random but still somethings which did come to my mind :)
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