“Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you.”-Richard Bach
As you might have realized by now that how much do i dwell into the tit-bits of things...how could I have left aside this so very important topic. :) Life begins with a wonderful relation, the one of a mother with her child and proceeds on to make scores of them.Probably by the time we bid our final goodbye to the world, we forget more than half of those who ever mattered so much in our life. The neighborhood kid who was the sole playmate or the guy/girl in the next block who we would have a crush on or that compassionate teacher who would favor us above the rest of our class.How much we remain in touch with the people who meant the world for us at some point of our life is what really matters...!
So easy it is to think that life would be so incomplete and worthless without that person and equally easily we tend to forget that person later down the time lines to the extent that as if the person did not ever exist.
Deep thinking on the same brought me to narrow down on the various underlying causes behind this . One might be that its very tough to let go of people when we part for some reason good or bad but then we tend to reason out ourselves that the person never mattered to us. And probably we start accepting this fable cooked by us...The other reason might be that probably we misjudged the level of importance we gave to that person...When impulsively we gave the person utmost respect and care we could not realize that this might be due to just an emotional phase that's passing by...!
When we say that the person no longer means anything to us...we are either actually leading ourselves in believing that or we were wrong in the initial phase itself when we gave any importance to that person at all....!
In either case what my personal belief is that think twice before a person should be important enough to be missed in life and if u find someone of that kind...u r LUCKY. Don't ever let that person leave you who loves you selflessly and without any expectations in return. Life is only as beautiful as the relations you have around. :)
As you might have realized by now that how much do i dwell into the tit-bits of things...how could I have left aside this so very important topic. :) Life begins with a wonderful relation, the one of a mother with her child and proceeds on to make scores of them.Probably by the time we bid our final goodbye to the world, we forget more than half of those who ever mattered so much in our life. The neighborhood kid who was the sole playmate or the guy/girl in the next block who we would have a crush on or that compassionate teacher who would favor us above the rest of our class.How much we remain in touch with the people who meant the world for us at some point of our life is what really matters...!
So easy it is to think that life would be so incomplete and worthless without that person and equally easily we tend to forget that person later down the time lines to the extent that as if the person did not ever exist.
Deep thinking on the same brought me to narrow down on the various underlying causes behind this . One might be that its very tough to let go of people when we part for some reason good or bad but then we tend to reason out ourselves that the person never mattered to us. And probably we start accepting this fable cooked by us...The other reason might be that probably we misjudged the level of importance we gave to that person...When impulsively we gave the person utmost respect and care we could not realize that this might be due to just an emotional phase that's passing by...!
When we say that the person no longer means anything to us...we are either actually leading ourselves in believing that or we were wrong in the initial phase itself when we gave any importance to that person at all....!
In either case what my personal belief is that think twice before a person should be important enough to be missed in life and if u find someone of that kind...u r LUCKY. Don't ever let that person leave you who loves you selflessly and without any expectations in return. Life is only as beautiful as the relations you have around. :)
1 comment:
gud one.!!!
hmm giving undue importance to everyone kinda a trouble invitation to self...but at times feel like respecting loving n caring for a person selflessly a lot and that gives immense satisfaction and never to forget they are all the part of your growing up with nayone of them missing the picture you may not the one you are at present day...each of them have there contribution in your life....its like while sinking u value a piece of log more then a million but on reaching the shore u will not keep it for ever with u but will leave it there and move ahead your relation was programed for that much duration only .....now,relate this log with every person u feel u are not in touch anymore....u'll get the answer
the tym which gave them immense importance in our lyf was the plan how we will grow up!!!!
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