Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Me...me...me again...!!! ;)

Dont know what to write here today...a lot going on in the mind...the new city...the new work experience...the awesome journey....naxalism....and the unwanted thread that connects it so closely to my life...!!!
But wat instigated me to write here was something entirely different than the above and quite in line with the past posts that's me.....  :)
I always harped on my interpersonal skills and how I could manage in any settings.Well, as far as I am considered I still believe the same. But what surprises me is the comment I gt today from one of the well wishers which said that I was quite a non mingler.!!!! 
Now all those who knw me from Lko will be surprised with this fact....or will they be not. Why for the sake for being the networked person should I go on making or atleast claiming to be a friend of most of the crowd when my personality doesnt even remotely gels with them. Is it for the sake of being well connected and gaining the tag of being friendly, I should go on with the mask of the person I am not !! I am what I am...and I know how to be friends with the people who I consider my friend,so why should I not do that and preserve and make stronger the relations which actually mean something to me.
In fact I actually despise the good-on-your-face people which do nothing but fool the people around them into them being Miss or Mr. Goody 2 shoes. What difference does it make to be nice when people already know what you really are.People say something on your face and something else behind your back,and then you say that you are well connected. Its gud to make relations which last some time rather than being "raat gayi baat gayi"
Don't know whether I am politically correct or not but then this is what has been doing good for me ab tak....so lets hope it continues in the future as well. :)




1 comment:

tintin said...

bahut gusse me ho kya dear??? anyway mere ko kuch jyaada samajh nahi aaya... but I felt happy ki tumne mera line use kiya "raat gayi baat gayi" ;)