Now this is something I have been pondering over for the last 2 years of my life...
FRIENDSHIP the unconditional relationship, the perfect Jai Veeru Jodi, the pakki dosti and the likes...does the utopia still exist???
Hey Hey!!! Don’t jump to any conclusions and brand me as a pessimist or a disbeliever in friendship. I am STILL one of you and would love to believe that true unconditional friendship does exist in this Kaliyug as well. It’s a good feeling that someone there still cares about you – someone who won’t judge you on the basis of your venting out or someone who could understand you without being explicitly told...
But there are some situations you will all agree to...a friend whose expectations you could not fulfill OR some friend who misunderstood your intentions. But the worst case is when a friendship takes a route you never wanted it to take, whether on impulse or on a slight push from some external source. The route treaded by only & only one of them- the route called “little more than friendship”. This is the worst phase of friendship where things take a different turn on the way of life altogether. It is difficult for both the people involved, to get back to the same unadulterated friendship and even more difficult to continue. Breaking a bond which was so dear is not that easy, it pains... and pains badly. But there are times when you can’t help it. The best route forward is when you bring things to an end and probably it’s in the best interest of everyone.
The other painful thing is when an ever-since-we-remember friendship undergoes a transformation. The people who could understand each other so well over all these years and whose examples were quoted when mentioning good friendships. And time has led the people to grow up to be different people. Their choices differ drastically and so does their approach to life. The little things that used to be ignored earlier are now the bone of contention. The little imperfections which were the beauty of life are now the thorns that make the path of the kinship tougher. And AGAIN the best is to part ways...probably again in the mutual interest and peace of mind for both the people.
Parting is again painful and it would remain to be. What matters is the way you part...!
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2 comments:
hmm......true meeting n partings goes on in lyf its how we do both things make a difference....after all lyf doesn't halt on one relation or friendship if one breaks be sure something much better is there in store for u!!...but loosing on ur old relations simply to keep up wid new..is something tym never forgive u for...if ever u do that be prepared u will face same someday in ur lyf!!
each relation has its own importance...there comparison is the root to all grievances....as no 2 people can be alike so is bond u share wid them seeing each in diff lite solve the purpose!! n bout friends becoming more then friends its not always bad u see my best friend is more then my sister to me...[:D][:D]
and of course revivals in relations have never been easy, a very knowledgeable person centuries ago said a famous verse:
"rahiman dhaga prem ka maat jodo chatakye, jude se fir na jude , jude ghatt pad jaye"
enjoy beta u seem to like blogging keep writing!!![:)].
well....baat sahi boli...
and FYI i think u know what kind of being more than frieds was i talking about.....baaki aap se acchi philo koi maar ke to dikhaaye... ;)
and its nt abt enjoyin....its more abt venting things out ...i hope u rem ur gyaan
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